Wednesday, January 12, 2011

My Feelings are Valid!

My feelings are valid! Whether one perceives them to be petty, immature or childish, they are my feelings and I must listen to them in order to love me!

How often do you find yourself lying to yourself and others about how you feel? Saying that you feel one way and you know you feel another, because you don't want to come across petty, immature or childish? Whatever it is that we are feeling jealous, insecure or scared we must acknowledge our feelings in order to deal with them.

Jealousy is a surest way to rid ourrselves of something that we want. When we are jealous it is our subconscious mind letting us know that we are longing for something.
There are only two emotions love and fear. When jealousy presents itself recognize that it is nothing but the devil creating fear in our subconscious mind. If we allow ourselves to be jealous it will impede us from love.

It is very important to acknowledge all of our feelings and not beat ourselves up about them. Our feeling are not good or bad, but they are valid! Jealousy is simply reminding us that we are worthy of the best! :) When we acknowledge our feelings, good or bad, and remember how fabulous we are the jealousy, insecurity and fear will quickly dissolve!

Keep it in prospective!
Love ya

2 comments:

T. R. Moss said...

First, I would like to say that you have inspired me and I can't wait to start my own blog page.
Thank You Chasiti!

I agree with you, you should acknowledge your feelings. However, it is your reaction to those feelings that can sometimes pose problems. I believe that you should meditate on how you feel or if you have to talk to someone about them, speak with a non bias, spiritually sound minded person. It is also good to sleep on those feelings. If you still feel the same way in the morning, address it accordingly.

As women, we are emotional beings. Some are just a little better than others at controling how we feel...it doesn't necessarily mean we don't know or acknowledge that the feelings are there.

Also, I beleive that we give the devil too much credit/power. It is not always "the devil", sometimes we are the enemy. 2011 will be a great year. It gives us the opportunity to start over....anew...fresh.
BREATHE...LIVE...LOVE without limits. There is no such thing as fear (after all, God never gave it to us).

Msgladys1908 said...

I am glad that I was able to inspire you! No God hasn't given us the spirit of fear that is why i callenge you and myself to live that way! I think 2011 is our year! lets do it big Meca!
Love ya!